Strategy: Acknowledge and accept accountability for your life.
This is an interesting thought when applied to horses. I see too many people who don’t accept accountability for what their horses are doing. They seem surprised by the horses behavior. In some cases I can understand this because if you are new to horses there is a lot to learn, but that is where you begin to create you own experience. People either take the ‘dream’ of a horse and put legs on it (work) or they don’t…and either way they create their own experience.
I think this happens in all areas of life. I have seen several marriages struggle but again how much work has been put in? How many marriage books read together or what ever continuing learning they choose but something. These things don’t just happen-you create your experience.