Posts by Stacy Westfall
Episode 249: Does your horse have a limiting belief?
If you’ve been listening to the podcast for a while, you have probably heard me say, “Your horse is asking you questions.” Sometimes people will reply, “My horse isn’t asking questions…he is making statements!” In this episode, I explain how horses develop limiting beliefs, what useful beliefs are, and how viewing something as a statement…
Read MoreEpisode 248: Am I doing this right?
The questions you ask will impact the information you gather and your entire riding experience. Often times, the question “Am I doing this right” Or “Is this correct?” is a lightly veiled, “Is this wrong?” or “This is probably wrong…” or some variation. You’ll know by the way it feels in your body. One way…
Read MoreEpisode 247: How do I know it’s the cue and not the repetition of the pattern?
One goal when riding is an increasing consistency in your horses’ response to your cues. This will only be possible when YOU are consistent with the application of, and release of, the cue. The quickest, most reliable way to develop this is by keeping things simple and repeating them: riding a pattern. But then what?…
Read MoreEpisode 246: How do I get my horse to keep doing it longer?
Have you ever wondered, but how do I get him to do it for longer? Maybe you want your horse to keep loping until you tell him to stop. Maybe you want him to stand until you ask him to go. Maybe you show in western dressage, and your horse keeps popping his head up…
Read MoreEpisode 245: Why does it work one day, then not the next?
Training a horse involves creating a language between horse and rider. It is very common for a horse to be somewhat guessing at the answer at times during this process. Your response to their best guess, is what helps them narrow down to the one correct answer. If you are consistent… This language includes your…
Read MoreEpisode 244: Why ride patterns? (especially boring ones)
Simply put: a pattern is a planned ride. When you ride with a plan…you’ll begin to show up consistent. The more consistent you are…the easier it is for your horse to become consistent. The magic of riding a pattern, especially a simple, boring pattern, is that it allows the rider to begin to observe their…
Read MoreEpisode 243: Why should I bend my horse? (and why you avoid asking more questions)
In this podcast, I discuss two ideas, the challenge of asking questions, and ‘why bend?’ The theme of this season of the podcast is, “No question is too small.” Today, I explain: why riders don’t ask more questions why the teacher might hesitate before answering what the moment of awkwardness could really be Why bend?…
Read MoreEpisode 242: But all the doors are closed….why some horses exhibit resistance.
One major difference between the early rides on a horse, and the more finished rides on a horse, is the way the cues are used in combination. In this podcast, I describe cues as ‘doors’. The beauty of watching an advanced horse and rider is that the cues seem so subtle that they are often…
Read MoreEpisode 241: Three reasons it can feel like the training process is going slower than you thought it would….
In this episode, I’m sharing three reasons it can feel like the training process is going slower than you thought it would…. This is particularly interesting when my opinion is that THEY ARE making progress…but the rider perceives they are not. If you are consistently taking action, and you recognize that you are having some…
Read MoreEpisode 240: How to relax your body and communicate clearly when riding.
Many riders experience doubt, tension, or frustration when riding because they are unsure of themselves, or are confused by their horse’s response. Many horses exhibit resistance and behavior issues because they are confused. In this podcast I discuss: Common reasons riders unintentionally give conflicting cues. How and why the cue system changes as a horse…
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